2007-05-07 • فتوى رقم 16302
Salam Alaykom, Sorry to write in English. I’m a Muslim man working in an African country, got engaged to a girl from back home that my parents chose for me based on her being “ZAAT ELDEEN”. I did a major sin (adultery) with a lady whom I fell in love with where I work and -may ALLAH forgive me- resulted in her being pregnant. She is Christian but I was told that marriage doesn’t solve the problem and it won’t be my child in any case. I want your opinion about 2 things: 1) should I move back home and still go ahead and marry my fiancée knowing that no body knows anything about my problem because that might be my parents last wish in life for me to get married to my fiancée (do I still deserve her?). 2) in that country they have a habit to discuss such issues with both families and I have an uncle who lives in that country and they will till him all about what happened should I ask him to keep my secret from everybody back home and what about the child should I give him/her to them completely knowing that him/her will be a Christian if I did. Gazakom ALLAH Khairan.
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم، الحمد لله رب العالمين، والصلاة والسلام على سيدنا محمد خاتم الأنبياء والمرسلين، وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين، والتابعين، ومن تبع هداهم بإحسان إلى يوم الدين، وبعد:
فنعتذر عن الإجابة عن السؤال بسبب عدم الوضوح التام للمراد منه، فالرجاء إعادة الكتابة باللغة العربية ليتم الإجابة عن السؤال المطلوب.
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ولمن لا يدعم جهازه بكتابة الحروف بالعربية أرجو استخدام أحد هذه المواقع التي تمنح هذه الخدمة لهم.
http://islamic-fatwa.net/templates/akey.html
http://www.almoslim.net/new_keyb/keyb01.cfm
http://www.islamonline.net/SiteDirectory/Arabic/subcategories.asp?id=45
واسأل الله لكم التوفيق.
والله تعالى أعلم.