2007-08-29 • فتوى رقم 20781
Dear Sir/Madam,
I have found a place on a course at a university which is away from my city; this means that I would have to leave my mother and family. The course offers me the chance to switch after one year into a medical school which is what I want to study; and it is really difficult to get into medical schools here in the UK. However this is not really guaranteed even if you get high marks they still may not allow me to switch its up to them basically.
My mother has a chronic condition and I have been helping her for years now. Over the past year she has really improved and she is in a better heath state now but still she is not 100% far from it actually. If I leave she would still have two of my brothers and one sister to help her; but I don’t think they would be able to help and please her fully because they are not very responsible.
I am really tempted to go for this chance as it may be my last chance to get into medical school and fulfil my ambition. However it does not feel right to leave my mum behind (I would still be able to come every weekends and visit her) but I do not know if it’s right to leave her now. She has supported us though out her life and still continues to support us. But at the same time if I don’t go for this course and stay in my city with my mother; she will feel like she has held me back from achieving what I want. It’s a real dilemma. Please help me
Jazzak allah khair
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